Paradox-ish.

"You are under the impression that hatred is more exhausting than love" (269). This quote by O'Brien is a paradox in that is contradicts what most people think about love and hate. Most believe that love is a good thing and hate is a bad thing, but this quote paints hate as a relaxing thing that takes little energy. This reveals the theme of hate being an easy way out. People in this society are much more willing to hate everyone than to love everyone. Love is something that takes work and one must constantly work at. The society of the book thrives on hate, and it makes it the easier, more readily available option for the people. O'Brien is explaining this concept to Winston through what seems to be a paradox, but is actually something that is very true. This reality is a scary thing for most. Most people want love to be a natural thing, but it is not. People must learn how to love and constantly work at it. Hate is easy, and is very prominent in this lazy society.